Have there ever been people in your life who changed the way you think about things?
As a lymphedema therapist and patient educator for over 20 years, I feel compelled to tell you the following story.
It all started last summer when I was attending the Jazz Festival inNewport,Oregon.
I couldn’t leave Newport without stopping by to see Manoosh, the owner of my favorite boutique. When I entered her store she was packing up $7,000 worth of leather jackets for a customer in Cle Elum, Washington. I ask her if she had ever been to CleElum because I couldn’t understand why anyone from that little wide spot in the road would need all those jackets. Manoosh fired back at me and said, “You just don’t get it, JoAnn. It doesn’t matter where you live or where you are going, it’s all about how you feel about yourself and you only feel as good as you look!” I pondered that for a moment and replied, “As a nutritionist, that’s not how I learned it, but I like where you are coming from.” At that point, she invited me to come to her style show and offered to put me at the same table as the lady from Cle Elum!
Curiosity got the best of me, and in November I drove the 300 miles back toNewport, sat with the lady from CleElum and had a marvelous time. I even ended up being in the style show myself. I stayed over that night and helped Manoosh the following day transport all of the beautiful clothes from the show back to her shop. I told her I had been thinking a lot about what she had said, because I had treated lymphedema patients for twenty years and I knew that one of the greatest challenges for a lymphedema patient was feeling beautiful again. I also know how important that is for their recovery, particularly if they are cancer survivors. Manoosh looked at me and smiled. She said, “I know exactly what you are saying. Something you probably don’t know about me is that I was a surgical nurse for 40 years!” She said she would tell the family members of her female hospital patients to bring in their make-up and tell them, “ I don’t ever want to come into this room and see her without her lipstick on!” Manoosh would wrap a pretty, bright-colored scarf around her patient’s neck and watch the change in countenance, attitude and recovery time – - – even heart rate! Manoosh clearly understands the psychological devastation caused from lymphedema and offered to do anything she could to help our lymphedema patients, i.e. design special clothing, sponsor a style show, or whatever.
As I was leaving, she said, “Now don’t forget . . . . You only feel as good as you look, and YOU ONLY HAVE TODAY!.”
Did Manoosh’s comments change my life? You bet. In fact, for me, getting ready each morning is now an event! And, by the way, Manoosh is having another style show next Fall.
Suzette (Pictured Above) was my patient in 1994 and is now wearing the new JoViPak Combi and Box Glove to manage her lymphedema during the day.


